Complaint: Criticism
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Old Dec 11, 2009, 5:30 PM
chrisal chrisal is offline
 
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PHXFlyer thanks for the invitation to participate on your poll (God you must have an interesting life). Just to help you out a little I have posted a message in my story to invite people to come and vote in your poll, because as things stand at the moment the only people who seem to care are you and me. Let's hope my message rallies the troops a little eh!
As I said in other message, first of all I would like to thank you for giving me the biggest laugh that I have had since my own horrible story began last Saturday night. To receive an email saying that you have received 2 infractions which will lead to an eventual ban is absolutely fabulous news for me! I cannot tell you how hilarious this news is for me. I haven't laughed so much for a long time and neither has my girlfriend for that matter! Oh by the way thanks for the Christmas wishes!
No what I think the problem is here is that you have purposefully chosen to ignore the main point of my email and gone straight on the attack saying that my girlfriend (who has never left her country in her life) should know that she needs a visa to transit the States. You have failed to comment on the fact that Delta gave her incorrect information, which lead to her not enquiring if she needs a visa to travel. This is the whole point to my post, so when you so matter of factly told me in your first post that Delta should have known this information and my girlfriend should have also....then yes it was a pretty unhelpful response. The point was that she didn't know so she asked and they said she didn't need a visa. This is the point. So you say that Delta should know. Therefore if they didn't tell her does this not somehow mean they are responsible? Am I getting through at all here?
Also you said that you posted holiday wishes to me in an "adult manner". Not before saying that "I am getting all I deserve." This to me doesn't seem very adult. Infact it strikes me as being something that a childish spiteful 5 year old would say! Nothing adult about it whatsoever.
I have apologised to the website for my outburst towards you and that is as far as my apologies will go. The nightmare that I am living at the moment is a real life situation. For you this may be some sort of weird hobby but for me this is very real, therefore it is not going to take much to wind me up especially when someone tells to me to "look in the mirror admit I am to blame and then to get on with my life." Furthermore when the same person later tells me that I am "getting all that I deserve" is only adding fuel to the fire.
I hope this goes some way into explaining why I think your comments were infact "unhelpful/inflammatory posts", and is why you have received your infractions.
Now, just to repeat some great advise someone once gave me, why don't you find the nearest mirror, take a good hard look at yourself, and say these words "I am at least partly to blame." Then perhaps you can get on with you life.

As I am currently living in Buenos Aires I thought I might sing you a song to try and cheer you up a little. Sing along if you know the words....
DON'T CRY FOR ME ARGENTINA!!!!!

Last edited by PHXFlyer; Dec 23, 2009 at 1:51 AM.